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Coaching Q and A- Stuck

Hey Wonderful Souls!

It’s Coaching Q & A time!

Q: I’m really stuck on a specific project. I just can’t figure out the best step to take next and I’m up against a deadline for my boss or a customer. How do I get unstuck?

A: First, take a deep breath! I believe often in these situations that one of the best things we can do is step away even if just for  a  few minutes. I have found when we are right in the “face” of the project or piece we are working on that we can’t see what is working, what is not and what could be next if we don’t gain a little perspective.  I get when you are on a deadline it’s easy to feel like you don’t have even 15 minutes to step fully away from it. But in truth it’s often the case that we are not making any progress on it anyways by “staring” at it. Do something totally unrelated to what you are working on then go back to it. If you are still stuck try some or all of the following ideas:

1-If you can step away a little bit longer, maybe even go outside get some air!

2-Once you have stepped away a little bit try looking at it for what does work, what is good,then once you have that it’s often easier to tell what is maybe out of place or not working- make a list

3-Talk it through with someone, I have found that talking it outloud is sometimes very helpful in situations that you are feeling stuck on.

4-Think back to what the objective of the project is in the first place and look at what you have/where you are and go from there.

5-Ask for help where you know you really need it

And as a sidenote, don’t forget to celebrate your accomplishment when you are done!

Here is to living Inspired, Creative and Empowered

Heather

Ways I would love to support you in 2012

Hello Beautiful Souls!

I want to support your dreams, your journey, your creativity this year. I want to connect with you and help you connect with yourself and your purpose. I truly deeply do, it’s part of my purpose…

So I thought I would put this post together to gather in one place all the ways we can work together and connect!

-Coaching, I offer several different types and packages of coaching, go here to check them all out. I do my best to make it affordable for you in time and money. It’s my job, my passion to listen between the lines to get to the heart of what you are saying…

-Journey to Authentic You workshop, it’s  not too late to join in the fun, creativity and introspection.

- My Flickr  group called Virtually Creative, I post a new creative project each month sometimes more.

I am working on starting a new category on the blog for coaching questions, if you have a question you would like to ask me as a coach I would love to hear from you. Keep in mind I will keep your name  private if you prefer but I will post the question on the blog for the benefit of others to learn from one another and our journeys.

Also on the sidebar you can find my facebook and twitter info to connect with me on there!

If you just want someone to bounce some ideas off of, sorta do an email braindump with, I am happy to do so email me at the address below, just let me know it’s for the 2 of us and not to be posted on the blog! (though I would be sure to double-check beforehand anyways!)

I truly want to support you this year…email me with any questions about any of the above information. hstoliveinspired(@)gmail.com

Here is to living Inspired,Creative and Empowered

Heather